To say that the last two months have been busy would be an understatement of epic proportions! Jam-packed, hectic, life-altering and exhausting might come close, but let’s recap, shall we?
At some point during the summer, Grant and I decided to start looking for a cottage. For those of you who don’t live in Ontario or Canada, this is a particular objective of great many Canadians: to have a weekend retreat, preferably on a body of water somewhere, where friends and family can bbq, swim and play euchre until the wee hours of the morning. And drink beer. So, we discovered that, if we worked our finances carefully, we just might be able to achieve that objective.
We looked casually most of the summer and in August decided to take a weekend and go do some serious looking. We found a cottage in an area called the Kawarthas, near the town of Fenelon Falls, on a river. It was just about a perfect as it could be without costing us an arm and a leg. So we bought it with a 15 day closing, just in time for Labour Day.
Closing a house in 15 days is a challenge. Closing a cottage in that amount of time is insane. Luckily, I was still on summer holiday, so we managed to keep up with all the details (water tests, inspections, insurance, etc.), but it was crazy intense. And to cap it all off, Grant decided to invite all the kids up to our new cottage for the long weekend when we were closing 3 days before.
But it all got done and we moved in (another long story featuring packing up the boat, moving furniture and boxes from two places, and much heavy lifting). Our first weekend was amazing; great weather, friendly neighbours, happy family. Then over the next weekends we started fixing stuff up. Roof: check. Trees removed: check. New flooring: check. Moisture barrier under the foundation: check. New toilet and vanity: check. We bought new stuff: a generator, a bed, a lawn edger. We worked our asses off for several weekends. We are still finishing up all the winterizing tasks, as well as finishing touches for the flooring and bathroom, but we are almost done. We are ridiculously poor, but our cottage is pretty.
In the meantime, school started back up and Grant went back to work. Our schedules booked up solidly, as they do this time of year. But the cottage work and the career work wasn’t enough for this family, oh noes!! We needed a bit more excitement in our lives, so we invited our oldest son, his wife, our 21 month old granddaughter and their miniature dachshund to come live with us while they make the transition from B.C. back to Ontario.
Yes, our house is crowded. Yes, we love seeing our granddaughter every day. (And our kids are pretty great too!) Yes, the dogs are getting along beautifully (although there is a bit too much barking going on…). But, it is a big change and even when it’s a good thing, it still requires some adjustment for everyone.
In that way, the cottage is a blessing. This weekend, the kids and grandbaby went up. They did a bunch of winterizing chores that Grant and I won’t have a chance to get done, and had some time to themselves. Grant and I had a quiet weekend while I got a lot of chores done here. Grant spent the weekend recuperating, because did I mention he had a total knee replacement?
Yeah, that happened too. See I told you it was a crazy time!